Views:696 | By: Maureen For the longest time, women seem to be the ones who make the marriage work. You hear it in bridal showers , ladies meetings , some marriage counselors and in weddings.

If it was purely up to women, we would barely have divorces or separations. This is because women love family and relationships. Women will do anything for a relationship to work. The extents Women have gone to save their marriages or relationships, are next to complete madness.

Brilliant educated women reduce themselves to a lesser version of themselves, just to get married or to save their marriages. Women love family. Women greatest achievement are in the area of family then profession. Simply women are first relational then occupational, while men are occupational then relational.

When a man is not doing well professionally or financially, he finds no consolation in his marital status.

A relational person is submitting or under the leadership of an occupational person. It doesn't matter what the woman do or believes, their marriage will be led by the man's idea or understanding of marriage.

In this culture of arrogance and narcissistic tendencies, always remember the man who tames himself even in the midst of ridiculous temptations, is the man who chooses his wife and children over and over again even when its killing him everything rises and falls on leadership.