Views:903 | By: Maureen A lot of times when a woman leaves a long term relationship, the man's very first thoughts are " she found someone else" or " how could she do this and so much more " , but what some men don't think about is all of the times she went to sleep feeling like crap because of all the times he disrespected her or how he kept saying he would change but never did.

Men don't think about all the times she was there when no one else was. How she did her part to take care of him when he didn't have anything.

Men don't think about how she always put everyone and everything before herself. They don't think about how all her friends and family told her to walk away but she still stayed.

All they think is " how could she do this" well, women don't just wake up one day and decide to leave. men's actions, his words, the way he makes her feel builds up over time and eventually, all his crap becomes this weight that she just can't carry anymore.

When she stops venting to you , when she stops trying to get you to see things her way, just know it's not because you won, it's because she's preparing her escape from your toxic ways. So, no! She didn't leave you to find someone else. She left so that she can find herself. Ladies know and realize your worth, love yourself.