Views:618 | By: Becky Dreams are a major part of living and believing. Each individual growing up has a specific expectation to achieve at a certain point in their life. Many ladies believe that at a certain age they will be married, have children, and a fulfilling career. For men, the dreams are also similar but mainly based on their ability to support their loved ones. These dreams are valid but not always reality.
Some of the most depressing factors associated with dreams are based on society's expectations. As we grow and go through developmental stages the society places expectations on different life experiences. From childhood to young adulthood one is expected to receive education and achieve a grade. after education was expected to gain meaningful employment, get married, and have children. These stages do not often take place as expected. In the current society, things have become more jumbled as a result of the extreme expectations we face. Many youths have ended up self-sabotaging to avoid questions and move away from society. But one major concern that is still in existence is the extreme need to achieve expected life goals.
One major life goal that results in turmoil among young adults is parenting. A great deal of youth has become depressed as a result of their inability to have children. In some cases, it has to lead to infidelity to achieve his breading. Infertility and psychological wellbeing have become a leading cause of medical treatments in society. Psychologically women have experience ghost pregnancies due to the need to have children.
One major cause of infertility in the country is mainly based on psychological uncertainty. This simply means many women take longer to get pregnant due to their constant need and want to be pregnant. Although pregnancy is based on the ability of a man and woman to mate it is also based on the body's stability. This simply means that the psychological wellbeing of both husband and wife can hinder pregnancy.
To be ready to be a parent is not always based on what we want but also on how well we are. Take your time and take care of your body. Your serenity is a major part of your journey. As for society please stop counting days from the wedding day toward the nine-month mark. Allow the couple time to be sober and self-regulated. Remember a child is born to a stable home, not a depressing home. And to those on the journey enjoy and be ready to face the new challenges ahead.
Remember when you feel overwhelmed speak to someone. A professional counsellor can help you face these challenges. Don't suffer in silence, speak out.