Views:1399 | By: Wanjiru | Act: Visit Business What is it with older women and young men? After listening to a long conversation, this is what I got and would like to share with you.

# No futile pressure and drama.

All an older woman wants is to feel loved no matter how petty it is. No pressure on how many times you contact them in a day, delayed messages, how many ladies are on your dm, simple good morning and I love you whether you mean it or not is enough.

# Peace in Abundance

Young girls want a luxurious life when they have almost nothing to offer. According to statistics, nearly 100% of young men dating or married to older women are happy and peaceful since there are no high expectations from the partner.

# Responsible and understanding.

Nowadays, the number of women in clubs is higher compared to that of men. The age range of these women goes from 20 to 30 years. All they want is to keep the status quo, just having fun and living the moment not caring about the future. On the other hand, there is a sense of responsibility and experience when it comes to life, so it becomes easier for men to be in a relationship with them.

# Stability and independence

When it comes to financial stability and independence, older women are good to go, they have it all. Young men do not want a lady who just wants to ride on their stability knowing very well these young girls have a couple of sponsors out there waiting on the list if they make a simple slide or are even already there.

But what about living life on your own terms? Going for someone with the same dreams as yours. Men argue that it is hard to find a straight and responsible girl in her 20s or 30s but I disagree. It depends on where you are looking, what are you looking for, and why you are looking. Because you will always receive what matches your motives.


If I were a young man, I would prefer a young lady who would help me interpret my dream as I help them live their dream. Remember there are pros and cons to everything. It is upon you to decide which one works better for you.